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hey guys, i just wanted to say hi and share a little bvit of infomation i want your opinion on ^_^

Its about my boyfriend, we have been going out for about… 3 months and I hvae just told him about me being wiccan (Im wiccan but i have only just joined a clan and my clan leader has not done a circle with me yet, very derpressing) but anyway, i told him i am wiccan and I let him look at my wiccan book (Book of shadows by schott cunningham) and he… like… kinda took the mick of out it :/ but then he felt really bad about it and said sorry and appologised, and i told him it was fine.

Well you might be saying 'what dose this have to do about being fae?' Well, here it comes… i think he might be fae. Like i reallt belive he isnt human.

Even after i showed him all this stuff he dont belive it. He really dont belive in it, he dont belive in any god.

I havent told him i think he isnt human, The reason i think he is human are because;

- He is Unusually smart, and he is only 16.

- He is kind, he can help anyone with there problems appart from hiself.

- sometimes  i think he dose stuff… like magic… x3 but he dont know about it.

- he is a real gentalman… like really.

- his eyes look yellow for one second and then they are brown again.

- he loves walking in the woods.

- he is quick and strong.

- he is beautiful…

If you have anything you might wanna say, say it.

i dont know what i can do because i cant talk to him about it, i want to find out what he is. I love him <3

Oak all of us are fae. They are our ancestors .. it's just some of us take after them more than the human side.  It could explain your attraction to him or you want him to be sidhe so your glamoring characteristics to him.  Another possiblity is that a spirit is posessing him. That would be the eye color change. But you to watch the eyes in the same light. If they change without a even a small lighting change that is a possiblity. I think there is a possiblity that they're involved in spirit form and possibly by posession. If you notice sudden changes in personality like his personality is being mimicked or he doesn't remember things he said or did with you that's something to watch out for. Manipulation can also be done without possession too just having the spirit around the spirit can influence people more readily than not especially in the case of a familial relationship.

When the sidhe appear here physically they do not look the same as we do. Their size diminishes considerably. When we go there or meet them in astral I find them to be on the tall side.

Don't push the issue with him. If the sidhe are involved you'll see it soon enough.  It's hard to tell if there's some kind of manipulation going on and even harder to figure out why. They can get infatuated with  humans and on rare occasions fall in love for real  I wouldn't count on that happening.

They don't have the same cultural values in man/woman relationships we do and you'll see a difference and you may find the differences upsetting. It's very difficult to maintain a relationship when there's that much disparity between the cultures. Make sure your on the same page. Your falling head over heels.  if he is not or if you feel like you constantly need to validate his love back off and get some emotional distance so you can think properly.  Doing this will keep you from getting hurt so bad. If you have to ask your self does he love me then there's significant doubt going on there and it's a yellow light. Your not really experienced with this sort of thing. I've crashed and burned more times than I care to admit before I learned the difference between curiosity infatuation and love.