When MSN still had their forums, there was this really special Forum named "FaeryTalker" –set up by an older gentleman who had genuine interaction with the Faery Realm. He learned how to listen to the faery and formed a friendship with them. Right before MSN announced they were taking down thier forums, I copied all of his posts and re-built the forum over at http://faerietalker.freeforums…..er-f2.html so you can see all of his posts plus more new ones added. Below is a thread where I compiled all of his posts and insights from the faery– that give a glimpse of the Faery's personality:
These are glimpses of the Fairy's heart through some of the things Fairy Talker posted that opens a window to their attitude and personality:
"They understand your heart more than your words.
If they think they have frightened you they may be so gentle that they run away and hide. Sometimes they are just embarassed that they were so bold as to talk to you or let themselves be known. "
IS YOUR CONCEPT OF FAIRIES CORRECT?:
Is your concept of fairies correct?
Well, everyone probably has a slightly different experience with even one fairy, so your question may be a bit difficult to answer. Do they look like Tinkerbell? Sometimes, to some people, you might meet Tinkerbell. However, most people have rather vague impressions of what a fairy looks like. Are they impish? Yes, but they are also very loving and very protective. In some ways fairies can be almost anything they have been portrayed to be, but then those perceptions are those of the individual and they are tainted by personal misconceptions and fears. So some people have described fairies as mean, vengeful, dangerous, etc… even as demons. This is hardly fair though. Demons are very different and far more dangerous. Fairies are not evil. It is very easy to confuse the spirits of humans and animals with fairies and some people have declared that all fairies are just spirits of creatures that are, will be, or were living. This definition is so all inclusive that it is difficult to say for sure whether or not it is possible for there to be a spirit being somewhere that neither has and never will taste life, but I suspect such a spirit would be a demon and not a fairy.
THEY ARE COY:
"September 2002. They fairies are back. They are not talking about what ever happened. When I ask them they simply say nothing happened. They deny that a meeting ever took place. They are particularly coy about this and think my questions are quite silly…"
THEY HAVE A CHILD-LIKE NATURE
August 2003. On the way to the Comic Con here in San Diego I was pounced by a dryad. After a big kiss she jumped back in her tree and giggled.
THEY LOVE FLUTE AND MUSIC WITH A GOOD BEAT
September 2003. The fairies were dancing last night. Dragons on the earth, Shadows in the sky and the fairies danced. This happened at a concert by REM. Though the fairies dancing began at a concert by Flogging Molly. They do love flute music and a good beat.
FAIRIES CAN BE MISCHEVIOUS BUT ARE NOT EVIL:
Can you talk to dark fay? What are dark fay? Are they evil? 'Can they really grant wishes? What does he mean, "experience the dark fae"? And how would I call the fae which resides in the artifact?'
Most questions are already addressed here… but maybe not exactly this way. The fairies say your question is silly. But fairies tend to be rude and too quick. What my informants mean is that they do not classify themselves as light or dark "Like some chicken parts!" That's the fairies response. As to good and evil? That is tricky. There are two views on good and evil: (1) truth is good and lies are evil, (2) helping people and not being dangerous is good and hurting people is evil. The first definition is what you get when thinking of God. The second definition is what you get when you are talking about fairies. By God's definition, fairies are not evil, any more than flowers or dogs. By the second definition, well, fairies tend to be impish, teasers, and sometimes their jokes are cruel or dangerous. So by the second definition, fairies can be 'bery bery noughty!'
FAIRIES ARE ALOT LIKE HUMANS, BUT ENJOY THEIR WORK
1. Can fairies be in other countries? Yes. In the spiritual laws, space is vaguely defined, almost like the definition physists describe for mini-blackholes. A single fairy can phase from one location to another in the same way out-of-body spirits can phase from location to location. Some fairies like certain homes, but others may travel. There seem to be Asian fairies that are a bit different from Celtic or Native American fairies. The differences seem to be cultural, but might be preconceptions of the witnesses. Fairies do not actually speak in English, Celtic, Chinese, Japanese or whatever, but that is how our minds interpret their speech. Some people who cannot understand fairy speech have said what they heard sounded like birds or insects chirring, or music.
2. Fairies have nothing special in regard to religion. They are not Christian. But they are not pagan either. They do like people who show them respect and they do not like to be ignored or forgotten. They do not understand why some people forget their fair friends. They are rather disrespectful towards adults who shut their eyes and refuse to see them. Fairies do have a religion. It is hard to understand but is basically a great respect for the Creator and the Father of Spirits.
3. Fairies are ancient. They do not age like people, but they do age according to how they feel. Thus if one feels old, it will appear old. If one feels like a little child, it will appear as a child. Angels are a related spiritual manifestation and they likewise may appear to be different ages than they were at death, if they have had mortal lives.
4. I actually already answered this above. I think it was seeing with the eyes of a child. It almost seems adults are too tired to look.
5. I cannot tell you how to tell the difference between fairies, angels, ghosts, and other kinds of spirits. You have to ask the fairy. Sometimes they will tell you if they were once mortal, or if they are scheduled to be born, or if they are neverborn. They are slightly different, but their individual personalities are what dominates your perceptions of them. A good shaman can see the spirits whole existence and tell instantly what kind of Being they are. The really bad spirits never appear as harmless companions. Most really bad spirits are awful to touch and if it feels bad, don't touch. Cleansing with sage smoke is good to keep the nasty ones off and out. The nasty ones come in many varities but you don't want to know them so stay away. The ones that came to you were the sweet ones. Since they came in a group, they were probably only the best and sweetest fairies. Because they appeared at a distance from you, they were being polite. Because they appeared in their diminuative form, in other words, little, they were being careful not to scare you. They can shift size as needed just as they can shift place.
6. I mentioned above that there are some tribes of fairies that are local and have dress, customs and other things that are unique to that area. Sometimes fairies get together and tout all their local dress and customs before each other trying to make themselves seem the best dressed and best mannered of all. Not unlike people at a culture fest.
I hope this helps, fairytalker
FAIRIES HAVE A BUSY SCHEDULE:
"Finding fairies is very simple. They are everywhere. The trick is sensing them. Sometimes they are very shy. Othertimes they are too far on the other side to easily sense. Then there are times when they have a very weak presence, very faint. Then there are those times when they are mad at a person and refuse to communicate. And there are times when they are not there, they do get busy elsewhere and elsewhen on other fairy business.
If you have offended them, they best way to make amends is go out of your way to show you are sorry. That is why people plant fairy gardens with waterfalls and ponds and lots of ferns and trees. But usually they simply don't know you and then it is best to go to a place that is a fairy place and simply be quiet and sense the fairy vibes in the plants and rocks and likely places. Remember they are much like you. They like love and kindness. They respond to beautiful music, flute and singing, drum and pipe. They love harvest festivals. They like the new moon and the full moon. If you are around a dolmen, they do act as gateways to the other world but there are human spirits around dolmens and other gravesites that complicate communication.":
INNOCENT FUN YET INCREDIBALLY WISE:
Well it is another year and I have updated the fairy news page. So go take a look if you are interested. My fairy friends continue to visit me whenever I ask if they are there, though I have to look first or I will not see them. Every now and then someone will report something strange that must be the fairies doing though. They love showing off. Twice last year there was rain pouring from the ceiling onto the office desk, but someone here who was brave enough to climb the 15 feet to the ceiling reported the ceiling was dry. Things go missing. Odd things show up. People get tickled. Odd noises come from odd places that cannot be attributed to humans. People have weird dreams. Myself? Well they visit me in my dreams and are very pretty, sweet and loving, though they are very shy. They have an innocence about them that reveals a lack of experience in mortal things. They have a wiseness about them that speaks of eons of spiritual knowledge.
THEIR ESSENCE IS LOVE
April 2005 After thinking about the advice I gave on how to know exactly who you are sensing when you are trying to sense real fairies, I decided to ask my favorite fairy. She says: "The way you can always know you are talking to a fairy is by the sense of pure love that you will feel. Even when a fairy is mad at you you will know that their essence is love. It is a feeling of sweet true love that penetrates your heart and you will know of a certainty that it is a fairy… Or, if you also feel a pure clean sweet light then you have found an angel… Or, if you sense an overwhelming testimony of truth then you are being touched by the Holy Ghost… Or, if you are overwhelmed by both love and truth then you are being touched by God, Father or Son. When you look for us, stay away from anything that is a mockery of love, truth or beauty because that is not from us."
"The answer to your question about the tsunami: She (Fairy Talker's favorite fairy) says, "This brings tears. Anything to do with love in the mortal world reaches across worlds and we feel it. The saddness is so intense. There is much love in the hearts of those who lost loved ones. My heart cries for these people who loved so much."
The answer to your question about sex: A male fairy says, "There is no sex across the veil. All creatures of spirit are eternal and cannot be formed. Children are mortal bodies for already existing spirits. But you asked about emotion. There are emotional co-joinings both between spirits and with mortals." She says, "It is nice to provide pleasure to mates. The shared love is heart's treasure."
THEY ARE INDIVIDUALS WITH THEIR OWN UNIQUE PERSONALITIES, BUT THEY ARE UNITED:
September 2006 I have been asked if the fay could answer the question: "Do you (the fairies) want people to know about them and talk to them?" Their answer is: "We are not all the same. Each speaks as one. I love people. I need something. I am curious. I want to hide. I like games. People make me laugh. Love. Beauty. Life." This answer is not one voice but many voices all saying some of these things. They want me to emphasize that they say different things because they are different "people" themselves. They want me to say that "Shamanic voice brings whispers and everyone should try to develop their shamanic voice." By this they mean for us to use the ways of perceiving spiritual energies in the environment because "We often speak and the person we want to talk to isn't listening. That is so frustrating!" Oh, and a small warning, fairies are not human, so they have certain peculiarities about them that may be surprising or shocking to someone who sees one clearly for the first time.