Our Forum…

Do the fairies hate me? Do they think I'm an idiot who's wasting their time? Am I even a person that they can trust? Because I want to communicate with them so badly and yet I've had no success at all. Remember the old shoebox filled with treats that I put in my back garden that I thought was going to attract them? Well nothing's happened and that shoebox is now in the cupboard in my room. I've got a Hyacinth flower on my window sill and I have a bunch of crystals and I have tried talking with them but still nothing has happened. I mean I know they are uneasy when encountering us but come on it's hard to know what they are thinking if they keep hiding themselves from me. I'm no mind reader and I can't feel their emotions because I'm not like them. I just need to know if I'm on the right track or not. I've started this belief back in October last year and I'm not quitting now.

Well I know all that but it's just getting them to notice me is the hard part.

How do you know they haven't? How would you know if they had? Maybe you need to figure out what you expect from the fae, and then figure out if it's a realistic expectation. Actually, expecting something might not be the best idea anyway. They don't perform on demand, you know, and don't seem fond of being pushed, but they do like it when folks are neighborly.  :)

Plus, something else to consider is that in the winter-time there is less energy available for fae to use in order to visit our realm. Also, in my experience the trooping fae really do seem to go elsewhere right after Halloween, so maybe between those two things there just hasn't been much of a chance for any of them to do anything that might get your attention. And, as SirZachary said, the Veil is stronger in some places than in others – it's possible that you live in a place where it is strong-ish.

Now that Spring is arriving, you might start having better luck.

Just be patient youll catch 'glimpses' of things eventually, though a full body manifestation is rare (but it can and does happen, thats how I saw my first faerie, and how I know without a doubt that they exist, or at least something that looks exactly like them :3 hehe). For me whenever I get too busy with the 'real world' I tend to see and notice less, but when I slow down and try to make my presence known to them, I start to get lots of glimpses of small fast movement around me, like things rushing out my line of sight so that I can't clearly see what it was, and for me it happens real often. I think though my case is different then most, because I am still living in the same building that I saw the full body manifestation of a fey many years ago. Therefore this entire building is probably a very very thin place, also probably helps that our neightbors that we have had my entire lifetime have a huge and beautiful well kept garden. :)

Yes trying to communicate while in nature is probably your best bet, unless your current situation is like mine (live up north, pretty cold, and already coming down with something from it >_< so going outside isn't an option for me right now until things warm up heh.)

 

Perhaps try meditating against a tree in a nice wooded area, or somewhere that nature thrives a bit.

Back gardens absolutely work. :) They especially work if they include nice-smelling flowers and/or herbs such as lavender, rosemary, and thyme. Honeysuckle is also very good. Leaving a bit of the yard to grow wild, if you can, is also good.

Strange random thought here, but if you get hummingbirds where you live then something tells me putting out a hummingbird feeder would also attract fae, especially the small winged ones, since it would effectively be like setting out a big supply of honey.

Also, major tip: if your yard, like mine, is prone to getting lots of litter blowing in from around the neighborhood, definitely make sure to clean it up periodically. They really appreciate that.

Silverheart said:

Well I live in Maidenhead and that is what in the south of britain? Yeah south of britain so could the veil be thicker here? And fairies hate humans houses? Ah damn it! God you ninny, Joseph! You put the crystals out in the garden not on the fricking window sill! God I'm such an idiot for not knowing that little detail! Do back gardens still work in terms with communcating with them?

---

 

I'm not sure about how thick the veil is where you live but I can tell you that the part about the fae hating human houses is not an absolute.  We see the small, pixie types in our house from time to time–more in the spring and summer–and we have been told by Mr E that there are some gherrings (small mermaid type creatures with wings) in our large indoor pond.  Of course, the elves are near by us but we have also encountered some gnome sized beings here too.  So…it is possible.

 

Gardens are wonderful ways of connecting with the fae.  For one thing, it shows them that you value nature and they value that, and secondly, it creates an inviting space which attracts them to you.

you shouldn't try so hard, it probably scares them a little..you should still think about them but let them come to you..ask them to come in your dreams and if they do they are listening..remember..they are shy. :)

SirZachary said:

Did you here Mr. E's audiop about how the veil is thicker in some places than others. As for food the Fae dpn't actualy eat it the sort of take the essence of it. It could be simpky the veil is thicker where you are. Or it could be the secound I mentioned.

---

How can there possibly be that many spelling errors! Just about everything you can do has been said.

Well I live in Maidenhead and that is what in the south of britain? Yeah south of britain so could the veil be thicker here? And fairies hate humans houses? Ah damn it! God you ninny, Joseph! You put the crystals out in the garden not on the fricking window sill! God I'm such an idiot for not knowing that little detail! Do back gardens still work in terms with communcating with them?

 

Also a bit easy on the language there.

If only I knew they had noticed me. It's really hard for one person to know what they think of me if all they do is hide from humans because of the harm they might cause to them and their homes. That action of theirs confuses my mind the most.