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Children's Experience ~ Please Help!~

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Merfairie

posts 44

1:30 pm July 12, 2011

Greetings Fae Friends

Important post here ; dont have much time so I can not be as detailed as I would wish (will include more with replies)

I am in the Pet Industry Career but on the side I part time Nanny.

I have been Nannying two sisters for the only the past 2 months. One is 6, one is 8. (To keep their identities safe lets call them D and J)

D is 6 

J is 8

They are being raised by their Father, and have some intense history with their Mom (bless their hearts) but are still in contact.

But I knew something was so special about both when I met them, and after last night I really need some advice here.

First off lets start out with their personalities, they are yin and yang (just as my cousin and I were). J is loving and peaceful, understanding and has a deep connection with the Earth and Animals and Plants. D is playful and fun but more mischevious but not in a harmful way, but I think she is more prone to the mischevious realms because shes intriguied by it. They both collect Crystals ~ I believe they have traits of Crystal Children. And have a stronger connection with animals and plants than any human. I see their connection and I see their radiating power of love and joy as they connect with mother nature. They both resemble fae's (red/blonde and brown/red hair) and have big blue eyes.

I have been giving them crystals to add to their collections.

Everytime I come over they get so excited to see me so much (not trying to be over confident haha) but i see the connection we have. And I know its because the energy i give off, and because I am a Elemental and very spiritual myself. They always want to play in nature, collect butterflies, and plant flowers for the Faes with me and talk about how strong of a connection we have. They are SO intelligent. Incredible minds.

Last night I watched them until about 12 midnight~ their dad has been kind of preoccupied with his job (very time consuming). I brought two crystals for them. D asked if she could place a crystal on her window so the Faeries would visit! And J asked me if she could plant it under her new cactus she was growing because she knew it would give he cactus strength to grow (BEAUTIFUL coming from a 8 year old! right?). So at around 9 pm I took them outside and they planted their crystals under their catci's.  

We were in the backyard and we were talking about crystals and I was explaining the different names ( I dont express too much cause they are still young but I tell them something simple like Amethyst is for Love!) But they already have so much intuition about them that a lot of what I explain they already know.

Anyways, D started talking about nightmares. I asked her to explain them to me and then she told me a really long explanation about a dream she had. There were some statues and her Nana stole them, and there were 10 bad faeries saying "why did you steal me! Why did you steal me!", and then hurt her Nana. To make a long story short she concluded it with saying that she woke up in tears and crying so scared, and saw the bad faeries, and ran to J to ask her if she saw them. She said that J knew what she was talking about but that she didnt see them, and then she asked to sleep with Nana and did the rest of the night. I asked her more about the bad dreams and she went into the most detailed explanation I have ever heard from her. (Will explain more on request)

D was telling me that she has two minds, a big mind and a little mind. The big mind wants to see the bad faeries, but the little mind is afraid of them and just likes to play with the nice ones. She said that a lot of the time she wants to see the bad faeries just to see them, but really likes to play with the nice ones. (Curiosity ya know?)

So D is kind of mischevious. Not in a

harmful way but a playful fae way, I believe that she may be confused about bad and good. So I had to have a little pep talk with her about staying strong and always believing in the good and positive and the outcome will always be love. I just thought that was interesting though….

And J was talking about good faes. So I feel like there must be some playful Faes around them….What are your thoughts?

Here is the other thing I wanted to share ;

I am moving soon, and have not told them. After I sent them to bed, I was downstairs and J came down with tears in her eyes and said she had a sudden bad thought that just came out of nowhere and it was that I left and never came back. Her physic intuition is incredible, and we have the strongest connection ~ she is most like me. I told her that I was always going to be her friend forever, and even if i did have to go somewhere it wouldn't be far and we would visit ALL the time! I had more of a pep talk with her too and really helped her and got her to bed safe and sound, and happy and confident.

I said a blessing for both of the girls , and felt a lot more peace. I believe that they may have some negative energies from hard experiences they had when they were younger. And the fact that Dad is not so intuitive is kinda eh' ~ but dont get me wrong he is an incredible father. So incredible and loves them so dearly, I just "know" that I was sent to these girls for a reason. I think its to help heal and teach them about love and positive thoughts, and to gain confidence. 

Any thoughts?

Any advice on how to interact with them too about the Faes without saying toooo much?

" The most beautiful thing we can experience is the mystical. It is the source of all true art and science. If we open our minds to enjoyment, we will find tranquil pleasures spread about us on every side. We will live with the angels that visit us on every sunbeam, and sit with the faes who wait on every flower."
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Heaven's Divinity

posts 937

1:51 pm July 12, 2011

usually children will have those experiences. but over time the gift/curse however you want to call it will disperse. when we are younger we are more connected to the other realm but it usally disappers as time goes by. well to be honest it sounds negative, just my opinion one has to understand with good comes the bad the brighter the soul the more negativity and good.  the soul attracts. you could always tell them to ask help from arch angel michael or whatever you believe in wether divine name or domething else . its as simple as sayinng please arch angel michael take away the bad things or something. the angels are always willing to help no deed to small for them.

People

should learn to look with their heart and soul instead of their eyes.

The world would be a lot better place if people learn to do so—- Heaven's Divinity

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IluvDance

Canada

posts 228

4:01 pm July 12, 2011

Those kids sound adorable! Those dam bad faeries are just so annoyingYell It sickens me. anyways, that was a lovely story

Chocolate yum!

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Faecat

Texas

posts 673

5:02 pm July 12, 2011

Wow that's so sad. Maybe you could explain an energy sheild to them. Talk to them about imagining a sheild like a knight surrounded by white light and send it out (explain it on kids terms) and when they do the bad faes won't hurt them. I'm sorry to here about the dream.

          

 

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JollyRancher36

BC, Canada

posts 527

6:08 pm July 12, 2011

Oh wow, I wish my childhood nanny was as cool as you!

It must be great for them at such a young age to have someone like you to talk about these kinds of things with.

I'm sure it will be a great loss for both them as well as you when you move.

I'm not sure how much time you have left with them, but whenever you see them you could teach them the simpler things such as how to attract fairies, how to protect themselves from the "Bad fairies" and all that, as long as you don't get too in depth with information they may be too young to understand.

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Merfairie

posts 44

7:32 pm July 13, 2011

Master_Iris said:

usually children will have those experiences. but over time the gift/curse however you want to call it will disperse. when we are younger we are more connected to the other realm but it usally disappers as time goes by. well to be honest it sounds negative, just my opinion one has to understand with good comes the bad the brighter the soul the more negativity and good.  the soul attracts. you could always tell them to ask help from arch angel michael or whatever you believe in wether divine name or domething else . its as simple as sayinng please arch angel michael take away the bad things or something. the angels are always willing to help no deed to small for them.


Thank you for this Iris ~ I agree with you as well about it sounding negative, but understanding that good comes out of the bad the brighter the soul. I said my first blessing and called upon Archangel Michael for protection, I asked D the day after if she had sweet dreams and she said yes! A warm feeling of love and guidance came over me, knowing that God and the Angels were protecting them now. It's a little difficult, the father doesn't want me to influence anything on them because a past nanny was a morman and was dead set on converting them. Terrible! So I respect his wishes ; though he has Buddhism beliefs which is EPIC (I hope he teaches them more once they are older), so for now I know I can say so much to a certain extent. 

 

Thank you everyone too who commented :)

I just was reflecting back from childhood memories of my past and with my cousin. The girls remind me so much of her and I and I remember facing demonic visitors or evil entities as a child and being protected by my guardian Angels and God. However, my Mum was there for me and taught me much about this. The difference with them is its just their Father, who is rarely there anyways ~ so there's not much of a Mother figure nor Spiritual Guider. I truly feel I was guided to them at this time to teach them lessons of confidence, love and protection.

It really makes me happy to see that the girls are so in tune with Earth and Nature and Animals/Plants. 

@FAECAT ~ yes I was actually doing that! I didn't really say its shielding, but I was expressing to D that she can protect herself by imagining herself in a ball of white light that is Love and Protection. I couldn't get too detailed or else she wouldn't understand hehe so I told her what made sense to her. I was very surprised that she understood very well and asked if the light could be pink ;) since its her favorite color! Very cute huh?


So for now, I am going to continue to bless their home and rooms and them while putting them to bed. I always bring them a token of love and protection, to place on their shelves and in their rooms. Its neat cause their Father actually has two protection elephants from India his mother (the girls Nana) gave him from a trip. Before I go I will definitely tell the Father to keep an eye on the girls and talk to them about staying strong and confiding in themselves.

I have about another month with them then I'm off. Bitter Sweet :/ I will miss them dearly, but trips are a must! And I will stay in contact via mail and phone certainly. 

" The most beautiful thing we can experience is the mystical. It is the source of all true art and science. If we open our minds to enjoyment, we will find tranquil pleasures spread about us on every side. We will live with the angels that visit us on every sunbeam, and sit with the faes who wait on every flower."
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Heaven's Divinity

posts 937

7:35 pm July 13, 2011

Merfairie said:

Master_Iris said:

usually children will have those experiences. but over time the gift/curse however you want to call it will disperse. when we are younger we are more connected to the other realm but it usally disappers as time goes by. well to be honest it sounds negative, just my opinion one has to understand with good comes the bad the brighter the soul the more negativity and good.  the soul attracts. you could always tell them to ask help from arch angel michael or whatever you believe in wether divine name or domething else . its as simple as sayinng please arch angel michael take away the bad things or something. the angels are always willing to help no deed to small for them.


Thank you for this Iris ~ I agree with you as well about it sounding negative, but understanding that good comes out of the bad the brighter the soul. I said my first blessing and called upon Archangel Michael for protection, I asked D the day after if she had sweet dreams and she said yes! A warm feeling of love and guidance came over me, knowing that God and the Angels were protecting them now. It's a little difficult, the father doesn't want me to influence anything on them because a past nanny was a morman and was dead set on converting them. Terrible! So I respect his wishes ; though he has Buddhism beliefs which is EPIC (I hope he teaches them more once they are older), so for now I know I can say so much to a certain extent. 

 

Thank you everyone too who commented :)

I just was reflecting back from childhood memories of my past and with my cousin. The girls remind me so much of her and I and I remember facing demonic visitors or evil entities as a child and being protected by my guardian Angels and God. However, my Mum was there for me and taught me much about this. The difference with them is its just their Father, who is rarely there anyways ~ so there's not much of a Mother figure nor Spiritual Guider. I truly feel I was guided to them at this time to teach them lessons of confidence, love and protection.

It really makes me happy to see that the girls are so in tune with Earth and Nature and Animals/Plants. 

@FAECAT ~ yes I was actually doing that! I didn't really say its shielding, but I was expressing to D that she can protect herself by imagining herself in a ball of white light that is Love and Protection. I couldn't get too detailed or else she wouldn't understand hehe so I told her what made sense to her. I was very surprised that she understood very well and asked if the light could be pink ;) since its her favorite color! Very cute huh?

 

 

So for now, I am going to continue to bless their home and rooms and them while putting them to bed. I always bring them a token of love and protection, to place on their shelves and in their rooms. Its neat cause their Father actually has two protection elephants from India his mother (the girls Nana) gave him from a trip. Before I go I will definitely tell the Father to keep an eye on the girls and talk to them about staying strong and confiding in themselves.

I have about another month with them then I'm off. Bitter Sweet :/ I will miss them dearly, but trips are a must! And I will stay in contact via mail and phone certainly. 


Then what I would tel them to do is ask buddah for help when gets scary for them. asking any divine name for protection is good

People

should learn to look with their heart and soul instead of their eyes.

The world would be a lot better place if people learn to do so—- Heaven's Divinity

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Merfairie

posts 44

7:37 pm July 13, 2011

Great idea, I was thinking the same!

I'm going to ask Father Bear tomorrow and see what he says ;)

hehehe. I'll keep ya updated on this post

" The most beautiful thing we can experience is the mystical. It is the source of all true art and science. If we open our minds to enjoyment, we will find tranquil pleasures spread about us on every side. We will live with the angels that visit us on every sunbeam, and sit with the faes who wait on every flower."

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