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Member | zakary posts 513 7:34 pm May 13, 2011
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look ive had troubles making friends. but anyways, i need help. in all honesty i dont know why but i guess my problem is i dont want friends. like its not a top prioity. its like this. if i have friends great but do i really need em? idk i really need help. could you give me some. i mean all day i get asked why do you exist why are you alive. then people say stuff like your voice is annoying enough to make me kick puppies or you are so annoying and i dont do anything.
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Member | BlueTiger posts 189 7:51 pm May 13, 2011
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I find out that many can be so cruel. In my opinion they are only hurting themselves unless you let them get to you. I was liked by all that i meet. I can relate to those i am friends with that do go threw the same thing. It is good to have friends for many reason. They can have your back or be there for you when you need them. Its good to hand with friends. One being by ones self isnt where most find happiness. Dont let any one bring you down. if you do your only letting others win. Also there is a friend for every one lol.
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Member | zakary posts 513 8:20 pm May 13, 2011
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BlueTiger said:
I find out that many can be so cruel. In my opinion they are only hurting themselves unless you let them get to you. I was liked by all that i meet. I can relate to those i am friends with that do go threw the same thing. It is good to have friends for many reason. They can have your back or be there for you when you need them. Its good to hand with friends. One being by ones self isnt where most find happiness. Dont let any one bring you down. if you do your only letting others win. Also there is a friend for every one lol.
ive done everything by myself. there hasnt been an obstacle i couldnt overcome. i mean yeah they can have you back but i dont need my back covered
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Member | SaranelTonight Buzzzz posts 416 9:40 pm May 13, 2011
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I have tons of friends…
and it turns out to have only 2 close friends, and a sister, the closest.
Sooo… I make friends pretty easily.
Just be cool,
be OPTIMISTIC. : )
It's amazing what a positive attitude can do for you and the people around you.
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Member | ta posts 701 9:50 pm May 13, 2011
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I think it doesn't matter if you need friends or not. They are just there.
If a friend said that, "your voice is annoying enough to make me kick puppies", I would be hurt. And if a friend say that to me, they are not my friend, they are just so call friend.
Why would you not want a friend, a true friend? Someone you can share your self with.
"there hasnt been an obstacle i couldnt overcome", I think there is an obstacle, you haven't understand why you don't want friends or you can't make up your mind.
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Member | Dramamine Minnesota posts 202 10:06 pm May 13, 2011
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Zakk, I think I understand, you are an independent person, who sees things for what their worth, and have a hard time understanding why others do not. Also people are cruel, but at the same time they can be nice. You just have to find the right people to give your trust to, and maybe you haven't found those people yet and this is okay. Please continue to have you strong spirit and I'm sure you can fight off any struggle :)
…I hope this helps…I'm super sorry if it doesn't…
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Member | zakary posts 513 10:12 pm May 13, 2011
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Dramamine said:
Zakk, I think I understand, you are an independent person, who sees things for what their worth, and have a hard time understanding why others do not. Also people are cruel, but at the same time they can be nice. You just have to find the right people to give your trust to, and maybe you haven't found those people yet and this is okay. Please continue to have you strong spirit and I'm sure you can fight off any struggle :)
…I hope this helps…I'm super sorry if it doesn't…
yeah im pretty independent i mean you just described me pretty much.
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such a pretty place. i feel like ive been there before. so pretty. wish i could be there forever.
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Member | Dramamine Minnesota posts 202 10:20 pm May 13, 2011
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zakary said:
Dramamine said:
Zakk, I think I understand, you are an independent person, who sees things for what their worth, and have a hard time understanding why others do not. Also people are cruel, but at the same time they can be nice. You just have to find the right people to give your trust to, and maybe you haven't found those people yet and this is okay. Please continue to have you strong spirit and I'm sure you can fight off any struggle :)
…I hope this helps…I'm super sorry if it doesn't…
yeah im pretty independent i mean you just described me pretty much.
I just hope your doing okay…
Also do YOU want friends? I mean this is the real question….right? What do YOU want? I see no issue as long as your choice makes you happy, the moment it doesn't is when you need to seek help…sometimes that's why is good to have friends, but also just having a good relationship with family members is just as good if not better, because you family is there to support you :)
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Member | zakary posts 513 10:45 pm May 13, 2011
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Dramamine said:
zakary said:
Dramamine said:
Zakk, I think I understand, you are an independent person, who sees things for what their worth, and have a hard time understanding why others do not. Also people are cruel, but at the same time they can be nice. You just have to find the right people to give your trust to, and maybe you haven't found those people yet and this is okay. Please continue to have you strong spirit and I'm sure you can fight off any struggle :)
…I hope this helps…I'm super sorry if it doesn't…
yeah im pretty independent i mean you just described me pretty much.
I just hope your doing okay…
Also do YOU want friends? I mean this is the real question….right? What do YOU want? I see no issue as long as your choice makes you happy, the moment it doesn't is when you need to seek help…sometimes that's why is good to have friends, but also just having a good relationship with family members is just as good if not better, because you family is there to support you :)
well i want friends that i know i can trust and wont backstab me or think lesser of me for one thing. i want friends that i can relate to and not just sit there like this O_o wondering what their talking about. i do want friends
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Member | poppy_23 U.S. posts 40 2:06 am May 14, 2011
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this is going to sound pretty stupid and like the advice guidance counsalors give at school that is more easily said than done. The start to making friends is just talking to someone, sounds to obvious I know, but it works. The people who tell you are annoying do not matter, and the best way to deal with "bullies" is to stand up to them when they confront you, but to turn the other cheek when they are in need, this frustrates mean persons to no end if you show kindness in return all they want is to see you upset do not give it to them.
Anotherr thing you are young the obstacles you face now in no way get lighter with age there will come a time when you will need help and if you keep with this not needing anybody attitude then life will knock you down, it is okay to be in need of friends to want them life is to hard to handle on our own.
I hope you make friend, but know that you already have some hear
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Member | zakary posts 513 7:35 am May 14, 2011
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poppy_23 said:
this is going to sound pretty stupid and like the advice guidance counsalors give at school that is more easily said than done. The start to making friends is just talking to someone, sounds to obvious I know, but it works. The people who tell you are annoying do not matter, and the best way to deal with "bullies" is to stand up to them when they confront you, but to turn the other cheek when they are in need, this frustrates mean persons to no end if you show kindness in return all they want is to see you upset do not give it to them.
Anotherr thing you are young the obstacles you face now in no way get lighter with age there will come a time when you will need help and if you keep with this not needing anybody attitude then life will knock you down, it is okay to be in need of friends to want them life is to hard to handle on our own.
I hope you make friend, but know that you already have some hear
well im naturally kind and many people bully me for one reason. one of my teachers explains it perfectly, "zak is so nice he bring the meanness out of people". in other words i try to be friendly when people dont want me to and they get angry at me.
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such a pretty place. i feel like ive been there before. so pretty. wish i could be there forever.
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Member | poppy_23 U.S. posts 40 10:07 am May 14, 2011
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i am sorry i wish i could give you better advice you sound really nice… well to tell the truth when anyone tried to be mean to me at school, i kind of just dish it out back (verbally, i dont prank or get into fights) but i cannot really identify with your problem i have no issue making friends and when people say mean things i get hangry it doesnt hurt my feelings i hope your situation improves soon
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Member | BlueTiger posts 189 1:10 pm May 14, 2011
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Best thing to do in meeting friends is be your self. Real friends will present them selves and others wont. if they cant accept who you are then they arnt true friends. One much talk to others or such to meet people though. Cant just be alone and expect to meet friends. I am causious on who i call friends even though i think of someone is cool.
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Member | JollyRancher36 BC, Canada posts 527 2:41 pm May 14, 2011
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I think everyone needs friends! I get what you're saying about them perhaps not seeming important, but I think they are really great people to help you if times are tough.
What you describe makes me so mad. Bullies these days are so horrible. What they say is true though, they really are just insecure people. I was minorly bullied one time in 9th grade and it was so evident that the person came from a troubled home and needed to make themselves feel better.
If you want to have friends you have to try though. You may not mean to be rude in anyway but if you have the attitude I don't want friends it will show, and people might mistake you for stuck up. I've had that happen before too!
Don't worry, you have friends here! :)
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Member | zakary posts 513 6:35 pm May 14, 2011
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poppy_23 said:
i am sorry i wish i could give you better advice you sound really nice… well to tell the truth when anyone tried to be mean to me at school, i kind of just dish it out back (verbally, i dont prank or get into fights) but i cannot really identify with your problem i have no issue making friends and when people say mean things i get hangry it doesnt hurt my feelings i hope your situation improves soon
i am a nice person but i dont like to hurt people verbally or physically(which i wont)
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Member | poppy_23 U.S. posts 40 9:06 pm May 14, 2011
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there is nothing wrong with that and do not ever lose it
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Member | zakary posts 513 11:45 pm May 14, 2011
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poppy_23 said:
there is nothing wrong with that and do not ever lose it
i wont, but just being insulted for every little thing from never having a gf to my voice to my life. i just wonder why must people be so cruel
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such a pretty place. i feel like ive been there before. so pretty. wish i could be there forever.
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Member | BlueTiger posts 189 9:04 am May 15, 2011
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well there are many reasons one can be cruel. One reason most bullies are so cruel cause they are having so much problems in life and at home when they go to school they then take it all out on others cause of the fact it gives them asence of power for once. They dont feel the hurt. They them selves are unhappy. Others will fallow cause they want in on this as well. They want to fit in and have abit of power them selves over someone. When i was younger i had a friend who was bullied all the time. Well more like a pinpal. I didnt know all that i knew now as it was a learning experince for me as well. I told him the same thing and confrunt this bullie the head bulling about his problems. I basicly told him what to say. He did. Then every one started making fun of him thus not fixing the problem for my friend and making it worse for the bully as every one in school went after the bully.Causing him to break down and quit school eventuly. Well friend new what was right as we talked about it. So he with and found this other kid whick was the bully and they became good friends. He got him to join school again. They stood up for each other as well as others picked on. In the end the bulling all to gether stoped and more stood up. More not as indaveduals but more as 1. All stood up there to all bulies. Thus not having the problem in that school for long time. Yes it ended good in the end but One cased much more pain to the other so it needed fixed. It was like poring salt in to a woond that wouldnt not heal.
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Member | zakary posts 513 5:59 pm May 15, 2011
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BlueTiger said:
well there are many reasons one can be cruel. One reason most bullies are so cruel cause they are having so much problems in life and at home when they go to school they then take it all out on others cause of the fact it gives them asence of power for once. They dont feel the hurt. They them selves are unhappy. Others will fallow cause they want in on this as well. They want to fit in and have abit of power them selves over someone. When i was younger i had a friend who was bullied all the time. Well more like a pinpal. I didnt know all that i knew now as it was a learning experince for me as well. I told him the same thing and confrunt this bullie the head bulling about his problems. I basicly told him what to say. He did. Then every one started making fun of him thus not fixing the problem for my friend and making it worse for the bully as every one in school went after the bully.Causing him to break down and quit school eventuly. Well friend new what was right as we talked about it. So he with and found this other kid whick was the bully and they became good friends. He got him to join school again. They stood up for each other as well as others picked on. In the end the bulling all to gether stoped and more stood up. More not as indaveduals but more as 1. All stood up there to all bulies. Thus not having the problem in that school for long time. Yes it ended good in the end but One cased much more pain to the other so it needed fixed. It was like poring salt in to a woond that wouldnt not heal.
yeah but some will be talking about something i have something intresting to say about it and just tell me to shut up
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Member | Celloa Hint:its somewhere in Earth. posts 25 7:01 pm May 15, 2011
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Hello!,I say Bah what they say their opinion is not fact. I know what they say hurts and may be hard to ignore but my words are just forget what they say. Those who dont care about you you should'nt care about them! Such obstacles are needed! simply my words.
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