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It sound like you had it harsh there. I know, the facebook thing and how people just log off on you. That had been done to me tons of times, but it's the internet, things like that happens. I think there are people that are not like that too. I guess that's life, You have to live with it. Not everyone is gonna see that they hurt you.

 

Just cause someone spread rumors about you, it doesn't have to hurt you, if you don't let it hurt you. You have to accept it for it to hurt you. If anyone listen to that guy then they are fools and people that are not worthy of your friendship. People who listen to that guy are people that are easily influence and would not dare look out the box. You wouldn't want friends like that, would you? Those 10 out 12 people are fool and people that lack the intelligence to see things for themselves and fail to look at you the way you are. There is there that chance of 5 people who would talk to you. Having less friend and being closer to them is better than having tons of friends and can only call them friend when they are really stranger to you.

 

cojothebozo? The one man who talk about making a discussion on skype, but does not do it, right? I can agree to him, that sometimes people on this site tend to take everything for fae. They keep asking out here, what to do? and if that is a fae that they see, when they could of ask themselves and see really what their heart is telling them. I do not blame them, they have their way of learning. But I disagree that Mr.E is a fake. If he is, Susan have to be a very good actor. At some level I can still be skeptic if Mr.E is real because I have never have experience with any fae. But then I choose to believe that Mr.E is living somewhere in this universe. And even if I don't believe he exist, I would not say such things as cojothebozo did. He is still in his own little ego. Grow up seem to be a conversation some human would say, not us right? Were all grow up, just that we don't grow up the way they do and get all phony. We tired to stay true to ourselves as much as possible.

 

Don't let them hurt you, no one can hurt you unless you let them. I think those people that listen to themselves and see you for what you are, are really those that will seek you out even if that is 1 out of those 5 people. I hope everything work out for you.

zakary said:

ya know we have days when they are bad, that a good and that are okay.  but ya know people are just utter jerks sometimes. ill admit ive been a jerk at times to my sisters. but do you ever get that feeling that your blamed for everything even if you dont know why?

i mean its people  that know you want to talk to them(wether it'd be facebook.twiiter. myspace, etc.)  but they ignore you even though they know your wanting to talk.

ive been rambling and whats the point? well i have several

my first is i have a good friend on facebook. today wanted to talk since we havent talked in days. happens to be online and i try to talk. i say hi and 30 seconds later goes offline. on facebook you SEE notifications of WHEN people want to talk to you. i mean what a jerk for not talking. and my friend bothers to post something 10 minutes after turning the chat off. seriously i mean wow. just wow, why not say hi.

my second point is people in general. i am a nice person, but when someone goes and says your annoying for no reason, it can hurt you. now this person who calls me annoying calls me annoying because "i talk too much" he says. in reality i dont talk that much, i actually only talk to my friends. now i am friends with some of his friends, and maybe he is jelous because i talk to his friends and he doesnt like it. i mean he even said to me "if i see you out of school i will beat you up". and that can hurt my ability to make friends. because people who trust him will listen to him. meaning if he says to them "if you ever meet this kid he is annoying and avoid him". that knock like 10 to 15 people i could be friends with because he spreads a rumor about me that hurts me and makes it harder for me. i mean he is such a jerk

my third point. i just wonder why people are just utter jerks. i of course am not talking about you guys cause you guys arent. you know cojothebozo, guess what he said about all of you guys he said to me "people on that site are dumb. they just get excited of a light and say its a fae. woopdeo, grow up. i mean that mr.e guy is probably fake and is real shady because he posts updates every month but never does the ask mr.e thing." thats all cojo people. what happened to when the world was inoccent in our child ages of 4 5 and 6 yrs old.

i guess what im getting at is why is it that im someone that people think that they can pick and pick at me and yet think im ok after wards. i mean i wont hurt anyone because im better. i just wish i could share my point of view with people and they wont go lash out on me because they dont like it.

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yea well thats people for you having their own worries and what not not thinking about their actions and wind up hurting people. its a matter of perspective you cant take things like that peraonally ud wind up hurting yourself emotionally. My familt and friends have done this nermous times i say its my bad timing, maybe they are busy, or just having a real bad day and not want to chat. also people can be rude when they want to but dont let that bring you down that would be  holding yourself back
 

You still speak to cojo? If so you know alrady he is a negative person. He may know a lot about spirtualism but he does not walk the talk.In spiritualism you kind of have to learn not to judge people though it seemes to be a everlasing defect We also learn  not to feed are egos which he clearly does. also we come terms with any anger we habor which clearly he has not or at least thats what I understood about spiritualism { He may have some anger issues for some certain things in life that causes all this anger and hate about people in general but it gives him no right to treat or talk about people as such Its like he want take down people with him) I agree not everything happens is fae related but i wouldent be posting that or saying others are dumb . AS for saying E is fake and by contex Nat and suzy. Again who is he to be the judge of that the only one that would be the judge is the divine. They have lives very busy lives it obvious he doesnt if he Bashes RF.  I give props to them for making RF knowing that people would think this way, it takes guts.

 

its not good to hang around someone negative all best to do is distance urself or like my friends say delete with love and pray that he comes to tersms with himself.

Hi zakary ,  your last post made me post this asap–    Noone can EVER change a person's mind on thier own.  Only the Holy Spirit can do that-       Never try it because what will happen is that they will only end up ultimately convincing you toward thier end and both of you end up getting dragged further into the dark.

 

This is why I am totally against proseltyzing in any shape or form-   including those of my own Christian religious faith who try to pass out spiritual pamphlets to people.     All you can do is pray for a person and let the Great Spirit do His own work.  Our words do more harm than good.    

Four years ago, if anyone tried to talk to me about the Faery, I would have walked away reallllllly fast from them and kept my distance.   Then I had my own personal experiences which opened my eyes- without anyone having to convice me at all.   People awaken on their own time.

 

Regarding Cojo,  I like him nor do I feel any bitterness toward him.   I still  don't agree with him but He's entitled to his opinion though.      He  is right that a person cant assume any type of light , etc, is automatically a faery.       I have seen flying lights, and I KNOW they were faery related–    but what I saw was very rare, and i'ts not like I could go outside tonight and will automatically see one.   I don't think the faery really like to be seen by humans  to begin with.  Most- including in my own encounter,  have found that the Faery didnt realize that the person could see them, and when they saw the human staring at them, they quickly dissapeared.

 

hugs and stay in the light

lisa

i wasnt talking about forcing to change em. i meant like show them what i think and hope they agree. like if someone doesnt belive something, like lets say they dont like pie. ill ask why, they say "well i dont like pie because pie tastes bad". ill say something like "did you ever try chocolate pie?" and they might say "no, ive only had strawberry". and so i could bring in a chocolate pie for them to try and maybe theyll like it. sheesh. i meant that i can show em proof explain it to them whatever and hope they understand. not forcefully change em

Lisa A.- Grey Eyes said:

Okay, I get what your saying here-    not like you're trying to convince the person, but are just giving them an option to look at something from another perspective

 

:-)

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yeah. thats right.