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Member | zakary posts 513 9:50 pm February 10, 2011
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i have a prob.. i am a very honest person. and yet ill say one thing someone might not like such as i can do this and what not. now as being a fey soul im sensitive. and im hurt because people dont belive me and i dont like it at all. and even though i have a fey soul(and my body may be part fey) i just wish me and people could get along. so do you think you have anything that might help me.
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Member | ta posts 701 1:04 am February 11, 2011
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I don't know if this helps, but don't be hurt, don't be sad either. It's good to be honest. I'm sensitive too, I can't take rejection. You just have to tell yourself that it's alright. It doesn't matter if other believe you are not, what matter is what you know. I think you are trying to force your belief to other and if they don't believe you you get hurt. It seem you are relying on outside force to make you feel good. I think you need to look at yourself, pay attention to yourself.
It's not about making other believe you but it's you believing it. If those people don't have the same belief then maybe you and them won't get along. It's okay. It's okay to be different. Maybe don't try to make a connection when they are not ready to take what you got. Give what you have to someone else who are ready to take it.(find people like you, find people that understand and see you and wouldn't mind whatever you believe in)
Maybe if you want to try to get along with other, try to restrain the fae topic or topics you see they would not want to talk about. But don't try to hid yourself, be yourself. If they can't accept you, they are not ready to take what you have.
For me, I think to get along with other(normal people), I would avoid talking about paranormal or rarely discuss topics.(people are open to ghost, but there are people that still do not believe) I'm a loner, so I rarely discuss things with people. My only friend which left me a year ago, show no interest in my UFO topics but she listened when I shared ghost stories. I still do talk to her, but I restrain from talking about unbelievable topics. Although I did not talk about things i liked in classess, a person whom i do talk to said i was weird. I sure rememeber i haven't talk a thing to her about my strange interest. I guess our interest do group us out and people tend to always be able to know when were a bit out of place.
So don't feel sad, know that you are not the only one feeling it. I'm sure if life became too much to bear and you wish to speak it out, write it here, were all here to listen. I dont know if you saw my past post, but i did shared a lot of my feeling. I was crying when i wrote them.
There are those who will hurt and there are those who will cure. Find those that will cure. :)
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Expecting the world to treat you fairly because you are a good person, is like expecting a bull not to attack because you are a vegetarian. -Dennis Wholey.
The real measure of your wealth is how much you'd be worth if you lost all of your money. -Bernard Meltzer
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| Heaven's Divinity posts 937 1:58 am February 11, 2011
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Hmm there comes a time in your life when it doesnt matter if people accept you or not its a matter of you truly accepting yourself if you dont then you dont have to have acceptance of those arround you. I always find it odd how we strive to be accepted by others so we could
fit in. When all along we needed to just accept ourselves for who we
are. For we can only bring acceptance and peace to ourselves. Other people cannot bring us acceptance only within ourselves we can.
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should learn to look with their heart and soul instead of their eyes.
The world would be a lot better place if people learn to do so—- Heaven's Divinity
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Member | zakary posts 513 9:31 pm February 11, 2011
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ta said:
I don't know if this helps, but don't be hurt, don't be sad either. It's good to be honest. I'm sensitive too, I can't take rejection. You just have to tell yourself that it's alright. It doesn't matter if other believe you are not, what matter is what you know. I think you are trying to force your belief to other and if they don't believe you you get hurt. It seem you are relying on outside force to make you feel good. I think you need to look at yourself, pay attention to yourself.
It's not about making other believe you but it's you believing it. If those people don't have the same belief then maybe you and them won't get along. It's okay. It's okay to be different. Maybe don't try to make a connection when they are not ready to take what you got. Give what you have to someone else who are ready to take it.(find people like you, find people that understand and see you and wouldn't mind whatever you believe in)
Maybe if you want to try to get along with other, try to restrain the fae topic or topics you see they would not want to talk about. But don't try to hid yourself, be yourself. If they can't accept you, they are not ready to take what you have.
For me, I think to get along with other(normal people), I would avoid talking about paranormal or rarely discuss topics.(people are open to ghost, but there are people that still do not believe) I'm a loner, so I rarely discuss things with people. My only friend which left me a year ago, show no interest in my UFO topics but she listened when I shared ghost stories. I still do talk to her, but I restrain from talking about unbelievable topics. Although I did not talk about things i liked in classess, a person whom i do talk to said i was weird. I sure rememeber i haven't talk a thing to her about my strange interest. I guess our interest do group us out and people tend to always be able to know when were a bit out of place.
So don't feel sad, know that you are not the only one feeling it. I'm sure if life became too much to bear and you wish to speak it out, write it here, were all here to listen. I dont know if you saw my past post, but i did shared a lot of my feeling. I was crying when i wrote them.
There are those who will hurt and there are those who will cure. Find those that will cure. :)
what hurt me the most was this person wanted me to enter a contest to prove paranormal activities and win a million dollars. and i could donate it to charity. and said that if i didnt do it because i didnt want to i would be a monster cause id be letting children in africa aulstralia and alot of poor people die. and he wanted me to do it just so i could prove im telling the truth
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such a pretty place. i feel like ive been there before. so pretty. wish i could be there forever.
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Member | Adamaris posts 195 12:43 pm February 12, 2011
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I'm sure you have a fine reason why you don't want to go out and prove paranormal contests. What this person is doing is that he's trying to coerce you into doing this contest in a very negative fashion and that's wrong. Almost like he's saying "if you don't do this, you'll go to hell" type of thing.
Also, is he really going to donate money to charities? And what charities is he donating to? It doesn't sound like he's being totally honest.
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"With the realization of one's own potential and self-confidence in one's ability, one can build a better world" – Dalai Lama
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| Heaven's Divinity posts 937 3:22 pm February 12, 2011
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there is also one where you prove god is real "rollseyes
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should learn to look with their heart and soul instead of their eyes.
The world would be a lot better place if people learn to do so—- Heaven's Divinity
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Member | ta posts 701 5:59 pm February 12, 2011
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zakary said:
what hurt me the most was this person wanted me to enter a contest to prove paranormal activities and win a million dollars. and i could donate it to charity. and said that if i didnt do it because i didnt want to i would be a monster cause id be letting children in africa aulstralia and alot of poor people die. and he wanted me to do it just so i could prove im telling the truth
Is this person close to you? someone you thought greatly of? Why did you feel hurt?
If you twist it back to the person, that person would also be a monster too, because that person didnt enter the contest and win million of dollars to save other people. I think a lot of us are monster because we can't donate to the charity.
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Expecting the world to treat you fairly because you are a good person, is like expecting a bull not to attack because you are a vegetarian. -Dennis Wholey.
The real measure of your wealth is how much you'd be worth if you lost all of your money. -Bernard Meltzer
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Member | zakary posts 513 11:17 pm February 12, 2011
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ta said:
zakary said:
what hurt me the most was this person wanted me to enter a contest to prove paranormal activities and win a million dollars. and i could donate it to charity. and said that if i didnt do it because i didnt want to i would be a monster cause id be letting children in africa aulstralia and alot of poor people die. and he wanted me to do it just so i could prove im telling the truth
Is this person close to you? someone you thought greatly of? Why did you feel hurt?
If you twist it back to the person, that person would also be a monster too, because that person didnt enter the contest and win million of dollars to save other people. I think a lot of us are monster because we can't donate to the charity.
he is a good friend
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such a pretty place. i feel like ive been there before. so pretty. wish i could be there forever.
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Member | ta posts 701 1:24 am February 13, 2011
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I think, A good friend would not joke this way with you. Its seem like were both hurt by a friend before. Time are changing. It's not for the best when you hold on to things that may be best let go of. You may want to clear these feeling so you may move on. Things happens to make you stronger. Things happens for a reason. something things happens so that you can question them. something the answer are already within you.
I think we don't need to get along. And we won't get along with some people because what we may see and understand is not what they are seeing and understanding. I think those people around you are not very open mind. They don't see the world as you do, don't try to hurt yourself to get along. It seem the more you tried to get along the more you want to hide your real self.(Cause your real self may not fit in and you want to fit in so you may be cutting off parts of you) you need to come to term with yourself. People can believe you, does that make things any greater?
You said you are sensitive. Maybe you should chose carefully who you hang out with because they can hurt you a great deal if you chose to hang out with people that can abuse your feeling. ( i want to say people that does not run at your vibration.)
Maybe it is time for you to see not what you want but what you need. (I don't know why I want to tell you this, but I feel like this is what i should tell you) No body can help you, if you are not willing to find the cause within you. We are here to assist but we are not here to do it for you. We are only able to give you such information, the rest you already have. I hope you somehow make use of what I am writing here and somehow can apply it to your life. We are not here to be cage and beaten (>.<), we are here to stand and point the way. And I don't know what i am saying. And know I love you, we all here do, our love for you is greater than the people negative thought of you. So be strong. ^.^Make life enjoyable. Your thought creates. If keep good thoughts in mind you will definitely attract good friends to you. :)
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Expecting the world to treat you fairly because you are a good person, is like expecting a bull not to attack because you are a vegetarian. -Dennis Wholey.
The real measure of your wealth is how much you'd be worth if you lost all of your money. -Bernard Meltzer
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