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i just found out i have gender dysiropia(im being serious here) and i dont know what to do. im very hesitant to tell my parents because they would not react well. i really need help

SirZachary said:

I am going to call it out right now and say: Give me one good reason to believe you.

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i dont expect anyone to belive me after the other two posts. but i really do belive i have the gender dysropia thing. i mean yeah ive had my part of lies but i wouldnt joke about this. and dont belive me just cause i give you a reason belive me out of the goodness in your heart

whats gender thingywhatsit?

azure said:

Gender Identity Disorder is a term used to describe a person who experiences significant gender dysphoria (discontent with their biological sex and/or the gender they were assigned at birth).

To be honest, I've been following your posts lately, Zakary. I don't mean to butt in or anything but I just wanted to throw my opinion into the mix. 

When it comes to you trying to figure out what's wrong/what's happening with you, I can completely relate. I have mild OCD and was determined to get myself diagnosed properly by a therapist just to prove that yes, there was something going on with me that was out of the ordinary. Once I was told that I did indeed have OCD, I felt briefly satisfied and relieved before I realized that well, that's great and all, but what does that do for me? Yes, I got a title for what was wrong with me but that didn't change anything. So I stayed on with my therapist and found that talking to her was a huge help.

With you, it's a little different because having GID isn't wrong. It's not bad. There's nothing wrong with you. You can't help how you feel and there's nothing to fix. The only thing you can do (at this point in time) is to just accept that you have GID and live your life accordingly. You don't have to tell your parents if you're not comfortable but I do urge you to talk to someone, even if it's just us. I know at your age it's hard to find someone to talk to because it always goes back to your parents, but what about a counsellor at school?

In the end, there's something different about you, sure. But that shouldn't stop you from being happy and living your life.

Stop trying to find faults in yourself, would you? You're a lovely person just how you are.

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thank you

You're very welcome =D

 

azure said:

You're very welcome =D

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in all honesty im really shy about it and ive hidden it so long that its kinda hard to talk about it

DakotaRisingMoon said:

SirZachary said:

I am going to call it out right now and say: Give me one good reason to believe you.

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Agreed. You have already pretended you were a girl, and said you turned into one too. Not to mention you think you turned into a Pokemon and you believe you have a triforce birthmark.

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uh dude i never said i turned into a pokemon. and i said i had veins shaped like the triforce.

Master_Iris said:

We are here for people but not like this you need serious help that we cant offer not to sound rude but i would apperciate if you wouldnt post stuff like this

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-_-… "we are here for people" that would indicate that someone on here could give me help. "you need serious help we cant offer". that maybe you but not the whole forum. "i would apperciate if you wouldnt post stuff like this".  well if i want to talk to someone about it on a forum how should i hmm.  if you dont read it it cant hurt ya. sorry if im bashing you but ya really came of rude. cause ya know what look at all those posts up there. ya see em, most of them are tring to help. so some can offer help

DakotaRisingMoon said:

I know it sounds a bit harsh, but she is kinda right. I mean, what do you expect? Us to completely cure you from it? It's something YOU have to try to fix, because it's YOUR problem. I mean, if it was something simpler we could have helped, but usually with psychological, it's somehow caused by yourself.

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wait you and sir zackary do magic dont you

zakary said:

DakotaRisingMoon said:

I know it sounds a bit harsh, but she is kinda right. I mean, what do you expect? Us to completely cure you from it? It's something YOU have to try to fix, because it's YOUR problem. I mean, if it was something simpler we could have helped, but usually with psychological, it's somehow caused by yourself.

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wait you and sir zachary do magic don't you

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What are you implying here?

zakary said:

SirZachary said:

zakary said:

DakotaRisingMoon said:

I know it sounds a bit harsh, but she is kinda right. I mean, what do you expect? Us to completely cure you from it? It's something YOU have to try to fix, because it's YOUR problem. I mean, if it was something simpler we could have helped, but usually with psychological, it's somehow caused by yourself.

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wait you and sir zachary do magic don't you
 

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What are you implying here?
 

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hmm lets see gender dysrophia + multiple post of me saying im a girl + magic = possiblity of changing me into a girl

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I think you have some serious misconceptions on how magick works and what it can do. We aren't deities. We can't bend reality. I simply don't understand your reasoning. You said you are not willing to talk about it with your parents but, you seem very willing to talk about it with us on this Forum. Many of which you have never and will never see the faces of yourself. We are not qualified for this sort of thing. You are a lot better off speaking to a professional.