Hi Yessie, I just got a chance to read your message this morning (have off from work today-yayy!)
Anyway, I am reading more and more encounters of the Faery describing them as having dragonfly-like wings and this is also from older adults encounters as well as children's.. I think you actually did have a visitation from these Beings., and they are aware of the books we are reading if they happen to be visiting your room or bookstore where you bought the book. They could have even followed you home from Borders.
When I saw that red flying light zoom over all the cars and into the trees on the highway exit I was entering , I had just come from Barnes & Noble and was reading a book there about a man who is living with wolves and identifies with their packs– and has been accepted by the wolves as one of thier own kin… There are alot of Faery books that the Faery have inspired people to write– and I believe many of the fae check out these stores to see how the sales are going with these books.
While typing this just now I actually felt a sense of happy giggling within me– as though the Faery are listening right now and saying, "you're on to us!"
Yes, I think you were visited by certain Faery Groups in your area aware of you taking them seriously with that book.
They will sometimes appear as shadows too- and also as lights, or in their visible 3D form too.